When
someone’s overlooked for a position they felt qualified for because of their
longevity, education, experience and skills; should they speak their concerns
to their boss? There are numerous answers to this question and this is one of
those times I would use the positive and negative analysis list for my
decision. Often employees feel ignored and unappreciated by those who benefit
from their productive workload, and I am concerned its become common in the
present workforce of today.
List each
question that is important to you in an honest assessment of the overlooked
position. Include if you feel that age was a factor, favoritism, or if the
person’s popularity came into play.
Don’t forget to analyze the position and its hours, duties, overtime and stress. Complete your due-diligence then, think it through leaving no doubt of the final answer. Why? I recommend a savvy employee to gather all the information before a decision’s made.
Don’t forget to analyze the position and its hours, duties, overtime and stress. Complete your due-diligence then, think it through leaving no doubt of the final answer. Why? I recommend a savvy employee to gather all the information before a decision’s made.
There are
many possibilities: One being you might get a better promotion in the future.
There might be a reason for this person getting the promotion because the
company plans a layoff or to eliminate the job later to downsize the business.
A boss isn’t obligated to tell employees the plans for the company. However, a
company that respects its employees will explain even after the fact.
It is
important you do not let this become an issue that affects your attitude at
work. I lived by these words: “Rise above it” and believe me there were so many
times I felt like packing up my personal things and walking out. Why didn’t I?
I loved the work and most of the people. We are humans after all; and everyone
needs to feel appreciated even if it is once a year.
After you
made your list and still feel the need to talk to your boss then do it. Make
sure your attitude is not accusing or unprofessional when stating your concerns.
You might be satisfied with the answers you received and if you are not; then
it might be time to update your résumé and seek another company to work for
that you feel will value and appreciate your work ethic and knowledge.
Remember,
even though life is not always fair does not mean it is necessary to accept
what we feel in our hearts is not ethical. I know it is difficult going to a
job daily when we are unhappy; feeling this way is not good for you, your
health or the business. Only happy employees are productive; so do not let
anything or anyone make going to work an unpleasant chore.
Never gage
your life and your happiness by what is happening with others. Your Boss might
think you are the only one who can do your job as well; so even though looking
out for your best interest is important do not forget you are also important to
the company or you would not be there.
When you
feel a little blue about your workplace; pause a moment and think about the
millions who are still unemployed, old, and young, parents with families who
are out of work because of Globalization and American Companies that do not
hire the unemployed.
After pausing, be thankful you have a job and a paycheck to look forward to for you and your family. Do not let the politics of a workplace affects you in any way because compared to your family’s happiness it is not important. And, I know about workplace politics---I could write a book about it---and I might.
After pausing, be thankful you have a job and a paycheck to look forward to for you and your family. Do not let the politics of a workplace affects you in any way because compared to your family’s happiness it is not important. And, I know about workplace politics---I could write a book about it---and I might.
Don’t be a sponge
saturated with office negativity and politics it will only weight down your
spirit and make your life unpleasant; take a deep breath and exhale the imprudent
ambiance, and rise above it. You are the master of your attitude---don’t let
circumstance or other people affect your feelings.
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